How to Make a Man Feel in Control Yet Be the One Who’s Really in Charge! Here Is How to Do It

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A man, though he wouldn’t verbally confirm it, will always want to be the one who’s in charge. Tell it to his face that someone else is running the show and he’d be quick to point out that the show is canceled! The great news is, you don’t have to keep up with his whims in order to keep him within your leash. Here’s how to make him feel that he’s the boss:

Depend on him though you’re an independent woman.
The last thing that a man would want to know is that you no longer need his help. Though you may be the most independent woman in the world, just let this man feel that you could still use a little help from him.

Respect the final decision that he makes.
He would never be able to forget the day that you told him how useless his decision was and that your idea was better all along! Be sure to watch out for his revenge for he’ll make you go through the same embarrassment that he felt!

Find qualities that you can appreciate.
This is a man so he is always in need of appreciation. He wants his manly ego to be stroked so better come up with compliments – ones that you truly mean – and make sure to let him know about these.

Don’t let a day pass without reminding him of your love.
Men may not be as cheesy as women are but they still look forward to those moments when they are told of how much they are loved. This man will want to take charge but he will surely become your slave the moment that you assure him of your undying devotion for him.

Let him see that you take his advice at heart.
Be ready to listen to your man when he has a piece of advice for you. This is a great way to show him that you trust in his counsel. Always thank him for giving you any form of advice.

Always maintain your distance.
Give him ample privacy because each man requires space. Swallow all of your insecurities or he’ll try to leave you soon. Be the type of woman who is mature enough to give him freedom.

Be his strongest advocate.
You can make him feel that he’s in charge if you shout the strongest voice of support! Make this guy feel that you will never demean his efforts and neither would you leave his side when everyone else seems to have lost their faith in him.



Source by Krista Hiles